Fertility is more than just getting pregnant. Flourishing Fertility is a sign of optimized health. The Ultimate Checklist for Flourishing Fertility is designed to help you make those small, consistent choices and to keep making them! It’s broken down into daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly habits encompassing all areas of health and fertility– physical, emotional, social, spiritual, financial, and intellectual.
Like many couples, Abbey and her husband wanted to start a family right after they got married. When over a year passed by with no results, they decided to try artificial insemination. She remembered feeling on top of the world and thought, “This is our answer! We get to start our family!”
Sadly, after three rounds of Artificial Insemination with no positive results, they had to get additional testing. They found out her husband had some issues with his sperm, and that IVF was their best option.
Abbey was instantly crushed, emotionally drained, and upset. Why hadn’t they tested Mike sooner? Didn’t the doctor know what rollercoaster he just put them through? IVF is very expensive and they were fortunate they were able to pay for it, since their insurance didn’t cover anything.
Abbey said “I don’t think one can really prepare themselves for IVF until you go through it yourself. I have a high pain tolerance and the shots didn’t necessarily bother me, but the fact that I was shooting all of these hormones into my body seemed barbaric and unnatural, and I was very worried about the long-term effects of the drugs. But once again I went into IVF feeling extremely positive and on top of the world, as I thought this was going to be the answer to our prayers.”
On June 28th Abbey woke up at 5:30 in the morning like a kid on Christmas. She quickly grabbed the pregnancy test out of her purse that she had bought the day before. She hadn't even told her husband of her suspicion, because she really thought there was no way she could actually be pregnant. Abbey took the test into the bathroom and laid the applicator flat on the floor after taking the test. She couldn’t believe her eyes as it immediately turned positive. She must have opened her eyes and closed them to re-look at the test 100 times before she would finally believe it was real.
As Abbey went into the bedroom, she screamed her husband's name, while he sleepily asked what the heck was going. When She told him she was pregnant, he immediately hopped out of bed to come see the test for himself.
Words will never be able to express what that feels like. Abbey tried to be strong around her family and friends. Even though she knew her heartache hurt them as well, she felt so alone in her pain.
A month after failing at their first attempt of IVF, Abbey learned about The Schaefer protocol. At her first appointment she brought the fertility issues into conversation to see what advice the doctor could offer. She learned that chiropractic care often helps with fertility issues, but, while that was great to hear, Abbey didn’t necessarily believe it would help her.
Deep down Abbey had a glimmer of hope that The Schaefer Protocol would be able to help her, but at the same time, she was a little skeptical. Who goes to a chiropractor to get pregnant? Abbey and her husband not only received adjustments, but they were also provided guidance in other areas as well, including nutrition, movement, and empowerment (mindset). One thing Abbey new for sure was that the whole process felt different. She didn't feel like just a number (as she had at the fertility clinics), and she finally felt empowered through the journey.
Think about it. We have never seen a time where our children have been more sick. Right now our kids are dealing with ever increasing rates of adult onset diseases, cancer, autoimmune issues, and diabetes. Learning to be healthy as an adult is hard enough – eating healthy, working on gratitude, moving your body – imagine how difficult it is to get a child to do the same!
My goal in providing preconception care is to teach these habits to the parents prior to conception. This results in not only creating better health in mom and dad, but the health of baby is significantly improved as well! Imagine if you could slow or even stop potential health issues in your children by taking care of yourself first. That’s my focus, my inspiration, and my drive.
We hear from couples all the time that are concerned about how much time and money they have already spent on their journey, and we completely understand that frustration! While it’s true that making changes to your health takes time, you’ve spent a lot of time with what hasn’t worked, and now you have the ability to have a plan, a path, and a renewed sense of hope in your journey.